Showing posts with label wouldn't it be nice. Show all posts
Showing posts with label wouldn't it be nice. Show all posts

Tuesday, September 2, 2014

Persistence or Resistance?


I've said many times over the years, that a lot of my success as a retailer for the past 35 years, is not due to any great business education, nor is it due to any financial backing, but was in fact, due to my persistence, my unwillingness to give up, to continue moving forward toward my goal no matter what was happening.

Back then, I had no clue that our thoughts create our reality or that there was such a thing as the Law of Attraction.  I just kept taking action, and moving forward each day, being persistent.  In fact, I would sometimes say that I was "too stubborn to quit".

Truth is, I have been quite proud of my persistence over the years.

When faced with a big challenge recently in my business, ( I am not going to tell the details, as I do not want to create more of that!), I was persistent.

Each day, when faced with the challenge of the situation, I persisted in using the processes that I use in coaching. I walked my talk.

I visualized the end result that I wanted.  I scripted it as if it had happened the way I wanted it to. I found the better feeling thought.  I felt it real.  I played the "wouldn't it be nice if..." game.  I called on the angels.  I appreciated the good.

Each of these brought me some relief and assisted me in feeling better in the moment but on the 11th day of this challenge, the situation appeared to be unchanged. 

As I paused to reflect on the past couple of weeks and the fact that nothing had changed, I suddenly had a huge "aha" moment.

Yes, I was being persistent. I was walking my talk. I was continuing to move forward toward my goal. I was taking action every day. But I was really in resistance. I was in resistance to the situation.
 
Carl Jung said, "Whatever you resist, persists."

I was doing all of the processes, not just to feel good, but to change the situation.  I was being persistent but underneath all of that persistence was resistance. I was resisting.

The moment I realized my resistance, I felt myself instantly let go of it. Relief was instantaneous. I could feel the shift in my body and in my energy. I started laughing and suddenly felt inspired to just do something for the sheer fun of it as I finished getting dressed.  I put on my favorite Christmas music and hummed along. Christmas music always makes me smile.

In less than an hour, the challenge I had been resisting was 90% resolved without my doing anything else.

I felt wonderful all day. I was in allowance, I was in the flow. I had my most profitable week in months.  When I arrived home at the end of the day, a huge mound of tree limbs I had been wanting the city to haul away for over two months, was mysteriously gone.

So, the next time I find myself being persistent, I am going to stop and ask myself, am I persisting or resisting?

Love and Luck,
Lucky Lady

It's Law of Attraction for Your Lucky Life!
















Tuesday, August 5, 2014

Feeling Overwhelmed?

Have you ever had one those days where you feel totally overwhelmed?

Maybe it was one of those weeks?  You know the kind. When you have your to do list, and/or your goals all lined up, you're taking action, and nothing goes according to plan?


I have and it definitely doesn't feel good. 

So I thought I would share with you ten things I did that helped to shift my vibration out of overwhelment.

Here's how Abraham defines it and just reading this definition began the shift for me.

"Overwhelment: The state of simultaneously focusing upon what you want and your inability to achieve it at the same time."
Ask and It Is Given
  1. First, I wrote out everything I was believing about why I thought I was unable to achieve what I wanted. This brought up some old hidden beliefs and I decided to change those, right then and there.
  2. Then I did some EFT tapping to clear out the feeling of overwhelment and the negative feelings that accompanied the old beliefs. 
  3. I got quiet and did some meditation.
  4. I asked some questions like:What would it take to change this?  Where am I refusing or disallowing other possibilities? What if it all works out? What if it turns out better than I can imagine? What if the entire Universe wants to support me?
  5. I called on the Angels and my Spirit guides to assist in whatever way was best.
  6. I playfully practiced "Wouldn't it be nice if...?"
  7. I scripted it all out as if it had already happened and how wonderful that felt.
  8. I read my daily list of all the lucky things that had happened this past week and affirmed "I live an amazing, miraculous, lucky life". I expect good things and I receive them." "I was born lucky!".
  9. Surrendered it all over to the Universe in Faith.
  10. Decided to "act as if" it was all a done deal.      
Wow, that worked for me, I am feeling good now. I feel like I really was born Lucky!

What do you do to shift when you feel overwhelmed?  I would love to know. 
Feel free to share what works for you.

Love and Luck,
Lucky Lady

It's Law of Attraction for Your Lucky Life!